B R E A K
09.24.06
Relationships fail and the hardest part when lovers end a relationship is how both adjust back to a life without the other. How do one recover and the other move on? Some take their time to recover themselves first before moving on. Some are desperate to recover immediately what was lost. While some are so consumed with emotions they never realize why failure happens and move on so easy by finding someone to replace what’s been emptied.
Friendships fail too and the question is, when two friends had a misunderstanding or argument do they necessarily need to break their friendship? How does one forgive and move on? Some would easily forgive and recall the damage. Some put their friendship on VL (vacation leave) and time can tell when one is ready to put the pride aside and patch things up because he needs their friend back. Others are lucky to be too friendly that they really wouldn’t mind losing one because they have plenty of BU (back-up) friends. And there are those special friendships where one just wants the other to realize in time that this failure was meant to happen and a friendly lesson has to be learned at the end.
Relationships… 99% are not perfect and the one percent that’s only perfect is God’s relationship to us (not our relationship to Him).
Friendships… are also not perfect… you cannot expect the best from your friends but there could always be something better to expect.
