B R E A K A G A I N
BREAK
AGAIN
When two people in love break up and they’re
both your friends, which side do you take, the one who called for a break-up for
an undisclosed reason or the one who didn’t see a break-up coming?
The answer
would be very easy but I guess as a friend, you should know how to place yourself
in this kind of situation. A saying goes like ‘if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it’, but since the relationship is
already broken, ‘if it ain’t you who
broke it leave the fixing to the ones who caused it’. In the process, I
realized that a break-up is something personal, and something that shouldn’t be
pressured by people outside that broken relationship. None of those two people
owe their friends an explanation unless they want to. But what should be
expected from a concerned friend?
A friend enters the picture once there is a breakdown
and not during a break-up. A friend stays behind, not ahead and hopes that moving on
will come easy for everyone.